Turning Circumstances Around

Isaiah 37:3
“And they said unto him, Thus saith Hezekiah, This day is a day of trouble, and of rebuke, and of blasphemy: for the children are come to the birth, and there is not strength to bring forth.”

Isaiah had a knack of turning bad circumstances around. He turned his kingdom around to serving the LORD. He turned back the oppression of the king of Assyria. He also turned sickness into health. Hezekiah found that the secret to turning things around was to go to the One Who could turn things around. It wasn’t that he could turn them around, but he knew the One Who could turn things around. Hezekiah knew that God was the only one who could turn things around. Whenever life dealt him bad circumstances, he quickly ran to God and asked for help. Four times Hezekiah turned to God to turn circumstance around.

First, in the “day of trouble” he turned to God for help. The word “trouble” is talking about adversity and tribulations. When your day of trouble comes, you need to learn to turn to God. It is God Who can turn away adversity. You can sit and bemoan what you are going through, or you can go to God and ask for His help. Talking to others about your day of trouble is not going to help you, but talking to God about it is the proactive way of facing it. Your “day of trouble” will become a day of opportunity when you turn to God for help.

Second, in the day of “rebuke” he turned to God. This “rebuke” was God’s correction. Israel faced these enemies because of their sin; however, Hezekiah knew that God was merciful and ready to help His children even in the time of rebuke. Your sins may have caused your problems, but God can help you through them if you turn to Him in prayer. Wishing you would not have done something doesn’t change a thing because you have already done it. The only thing you can do to turn the day of “rebuke” around is to turn to God for help.

Third, in the day of “blasphemy” he turned to God. When others falsely accused Hezekiah, he didn’t retaliate, but he turned to God. It is never easy when you hear others falsely accusing you. When the day of “blasphemy” comes, you have an advocate in God Who can help. Only God can stop the lies that are being said about you. Your best defense in the day of “blasphemy” is not to attack the other person personally, but to get God engaged to turn their attacks against them through prayer. My friend, it is tempting to want to defend yourself through retaliation, but only God can defend you when others are saying things about you that are not true.

Fourth, in the day of sickness he turned to God. In Isaiah 38:1-2, he turned and “and prayed unto the LORD” for healing. When sickness has gripped your body, your best hope is to turn to God. God knows what is going on in your body, and He can heal you if you go to Him. I’m not against you going to doctors for help, but go to God first to ask for His healing.

Your only hope to turning unwanted circumstances around is God. Christian, God has never failed. The only thing standing between turning your “day of trouble” into a day of opportunity is your lack of turning to God in prayer. Don’t wait! Turn to God now, for He alone can turn your circumstances around.

Adorning Habits of the Influential

Proverbs 25:13
“As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.”

How you clothe a person often determines what others think of them. How you dress causes people to think of you differently. I could take one person and clothe them in dirty, wrinkled and unkempt attire, and many people will never notice them or even want to be around them. I could take the same person and put a fashionable suit on them and give them a sharp haircut, and that person will be recognized by many. It is the same person with different clothing, but their adorning makes the difference in how others recognize them.

Likewise, many good people have never reached their potential because they didn’t adorn their character with good habits. A person whose heart is good will never be an influence if they don’t adorn their character properly. Proverbs 25:11-13 reveals three adorning habits that will help a person to become influential if they make them a part of their character.

The first adorning habit is proper speech. Proverbs 25:11 says, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” A person who uses crude speech will often turn people away. What you say and how you say it will often overshadow the message that is being said. You can have the right message with the wrong packaging, and the message will be ignored because of the packaging. If you want to influence others for right, you had better learn how to speak properly. Dirty jokes, filthy language, crude speech and curse words will not help you to influence others. Our present society has become very crude in its language. Learn to say the right things all the time. Speak kindly and properly all the time, and don’t lower your speech to the modern day’s crudeness. You will never regret speaking properly all the time.

The second adorning habit is an obedient ear. Verse 12 says, “As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.” One of the biggest causes of misunderstandings is the lack of listening. You won’t miss what others are saying to you if you don’t allow yourself to be distracted when they are speaking. One of the greatest habits you should master with all the distractions of technology and busy schedules is a listening ear. You learn more when you give your full attention to listening. You will know better how to do things if you listen. Be careful that you don’t become passive about listening. You will have fewer misunderstandings in life if you train your ear to listen.

The third adorning habit is initiative. Verse 13 talks about how refreshing a “faithful messenger” is to his master. If you develop the character to do what you are supposed to do without being told to do it, you will find promotion will be easy to find. The person who is always having to be told what to do will never become a person who leads. People who can be trusted to do what they are supposed to do without being told to do it are often promoted to leadership.

Friend, your habits are the clothing of your character. People will never see who you really are if these three things are not a part of your character. Are you missing your potential because you lack these three habits? Make these three habits be a part of your character, and you will have a better chance of reaching God’s potential for your life.

Don’t Become a Weakling

Isaiah 17:9
“In that day shall his strong cities be as a forsaken bough, and an uppermost branch, which they left because of the children of Israel: and there shall be desolation.”

I was sitting on the plane next to a man who used to be a professional bodybuilder, and we discussed how quickly a person loses strength. As we both talked about how often we exercise, one thing that we both concluded was how quickly you lose strength if you stop lifting weights.

The verse above discusses how the strong cities became weak. These were cities that once used to be the strongholds of Israel. These were cities everyone ran to for safety in the day of battle; yet, they became weak. These cities were no longer the cities people relied on for safety. These cities became weaklings. There were two reasons these cities lost their strength and became weak.

First, they became weak because they forgot God. No, they didn’t leave God, they forgot Him. How quickly Christians can become spiritual weaklings when they forget God. You must never get to the point in your Christian life when you think you can do God’s work alone. You must never start your day without God. The quickest way to become a spiritual weakling is to forget God.

Second, they became weak because they had “not been mindful of the rock of thy strength.” In other words, they stopped considering what God would want as they went throughout their day. Do you make decisions without asking yourself how God feels about the decision? Strong Christians become weak Christians when they make decisions without considering God’s desires. Spiritual weaklings are Christians who are not mindful or aware of God in their lives.

If these two things cause a Christian to become spiritually weak, what must we do to gain spiritual strength? First, start your day off remembering God by reading His Word and praying. Don’t get so busy with life that you forget to read God’s Word. You may not think it makes that much of a difference, but God’s Word is like a spiritual workout. God’s Word has a way of strengthening the Christian for what they are going to face that day. Likewise, prayer is just as much a part of the spiritual workout as reading the Scriptures. You gain spiritual strength by simply talking to God to start your day. I know you have a busy schedule and have to leave early in the morning to go to work, but you will gain much spiritual strength if you get up a little earlier to spend time in prayer with God.

Second, always be aware of God throughout your day if you want to stay spiritually strong. Before you look at anything, ask yourself if God would want you to look at it. Before you go somewhere, ask yourself if God would want you to be there. Before you start any projects, take thirty-seconds to whisper a prayer to God for His help. Before you enter a conversation, ask God to help you say the right things. If you want to be spiritually strong, you must be aware and mindful of God in all that you do.

Just like a person who stops working out for a short time loses strength, so the Christian becomes a spiritual weakling by missing one or two days with God. Don’t be a spiritual weakling. Pray, read God’s Word daily and be aware of God throughout your day so you can stay spiritually strong.

The Model of Christian Leadership

Isaiah 11:1
“And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots:”

There are many models of leadership that we have to follow, but as Christians, we must be sure that our model of leadership is one that the LORD would want us to copy. There are no doubt many great leaders throughout history who had great characteristics that Christians could imitate, but there is no one in history who has the exact model that the LORD would want us to copy other than Jesus Christ. In this chapter, God shows the model of leadership that Jesus Christ gave for us to copy. There are several characteristics of Christian leadership that Jesus displayed in His ministry on this Earth.

First, Christian leadership is Spirit-led leadership. Verse 2 shows us that the “Spirit of the LORD” rested upon Jesus. Christian leadership, first and foremost, must be led by the Holy Spirit. If a Christian leader allows anything other than the Holy Spirit to influence their leadership, their leadership will not produce the results that God wants. If there is one prayer that every Christian leader should pray, it should be the prayer of yielding themselves continually to the Holy Spirit.

Second, Christian leadership is balanced. Of course, if you are Spirit led, you will be balanced and use the right attributes needed at the right time. There were several balancing attributes Jesus used in His leadership. For instance, His leadership epitomized “wisdom and understanding.” He balanced “counsel” with “might.” He kept “knowledge” in check with the “fear of the LORD.” Christian leadership will not be one-sided leadership, but it will be leadership that will have the same balancing characteristics as Jesus Christ.

Third, Christian leadership is principled leadership. Verse 3 shows that Jesus did not “judge after the sight of his eyes.” In other words, He didn’t allow His feelings to dictate what He should do, but He let godly principles dictate His decisions. I’m always amazed at how many leaders make decisions based on feelings. I often hear Christian leaders say, “I’m going to lead based off what I feel the LORD would have me do.” This may sound spiritual, but Christian leadership leads based off godly principles found in the Word of God. Too many leaders are changing things so quickly because they feel one way on one day, and another way on another day, which creates instability in their work and followers. Christian leadership modeled after Christ will make principled decisions. If you are going to be a successful leader, you must set your principles based on God’s Word, and let those principles make the decisions for you.

Fourth, Christian leadership lives righteously. Verse 5 says, “And righteousness shall be the girdle of his loins…” You will never lead correctly if you are not living a righteous life. Righteous living gives leadership authority to do what they are supposed to do without the fear of someone finding out what they did in the past. Nothing substitutes for righteousness. You will never lead people down the right path if you are not living righteously.

These four characteristics should be the model for every Christian leader. These characteristics always lead to a stable atmosphere as found in verse 6. If you want your leadership to be effective, you will want to be sure these characteristics are what control you as you lead.

Packaged Together

Song of Solomon 5:16
“His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem.”

This marriage relationship was divided into two relationships. This wife said that her husband was her “beloved,” but she also said that he was her “friend.” Throughout this book, you see this husband and wife talk about their love for each other, but you find the key that made this relationship sweet in this verse above. The key wasn’t that he was her “beloved,” though it is paramount that your spouse is the one you love the most. The key wasn’t that her husband was her friend, though again this is an important part of every marriage. The key was that her husband was “altogether lovely.”

What makes this the key to making this relationship great was that when she packaged her husband together, she found that he was “altogether lovely.” In other words, she could have picked him apart and focused on the negatives, but she chose to look at her husband as a whole and found that “altogether” he was a lovely person. As in any person, she could have easily focused on the negatives, but she chose to package him together, and when packaged together he was “altogether lovely.”

Every relationship is a combination of multiple relationships. For instance, your spouse should be your lover, friend, confidant, and much more. If you only have one relationship with your spouse, you have a weak marriage. One of the things I have learned the longer I am married is that my wife and I have multiple relationships built into one. This is what makes marriage such a great relationship. By having more relationships built into one, we have more than one thing to converse over.

Likewise, my daughter is more than just my daughter. What makes my relationship with my daughter unique is that we have built several relationships into one. Every time we build into our relationship another one, it allows the whole relationship to become fuller.

Furthermore, my relationship with my pastor is more than just being a pastor. One mistake that many church members make is they only let their pastor be their preacher instead of a pastor, preacher, advisor, friend and more. The closeness and fullness of any relationship will be determined by how many relationships are built into them.

Here is the key! The more relationships you have built into one, the more likelihood you have of discovering weaknesses or irritants that could destroy the relationship if you focus on them. The key to making every relationship great is to package it together and look at it as a whole. If you package together every relationship you have with a person, I believe you will be able to say that “altogether” you have a “lovely” relationship. When you package a person together as a whole with whatever relationship you have with them, you always find that the packaged deal is what makes the relationships special.

My friend, don’t make the mistake of picking a person apart. You will destroy your relationship with a person if you focus on the few negatives. If you choose to view your relationship with an individual as a packaged relationship, I believe you will find that the package deal will always be “altogether lovely.”

The Luckiest People in the World

Ecclesiastes 9:10
“Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.”

The verse above is the answer to verse 11 which says, “I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.” Solomon concluded that “time and chance” happen to those who do their best. He noticed that it wasn’t the fastest person who won the race, but it was the person who ran the race with all his might. It wasn’t the strongest person who won the battle, but it was the person who gave his full energy and might who won the battle. Solomon understood that the luckiest people in the world were those who did their best and did it with all their might. Three observations can be learned from the verses above.

First, you don’t have to be the best at what you do to be the best. Many times, those who end up being the winners in life are the ones who gave their best effort to what they were doing. You don’t have to be the smartest person to be the best, but to be the best you must give your fullest effort to learn so you can have the answers when faced with life’s obstacles. It is not always talent that becomes the best, but most often it is character applied that makes a person the best. You may not be the smartest, strongest, most eloquent, richest, or whatever adjective you want to use to describe yourself, but you don’t have to be to do your best so you can be the best. All you have to do is do your best at what you do, and your best will often make you the best.

Second, the best are often those who simply outlast the best. Some of the most talented people are those who quit when times get tough. My observation throughout life is that those who tend to rise to the top at what they do are those who give their best effort and never quit. My friend, if you will just keep doing what you are supposed to do, you will likely rise to the top. For instance, I don’t consider myself the best evangelist; however, I’m amazed at how many people come to me when they want advice on how to be an evangelist. It is not that I’m the best; it is likely that I’ve outlasted the best, and that is what has caused some to want my advice about evangelism. Likewise, you will most likely become the best at what you do if you will keep doing your best and never quit.

Third, the luckiest people are those who ran out of bad luck. It is amazing how “lucky” those who do their best seem to be. It is not that they were lucky, it is simply that they worked through the times when they were not so lucky; this is why they seem to be lucky. “Time and chance” are not what caused them to become successful, but giving their “might”  is what brought their success. If you do your best all the time, you will be amazed at how lucky you become.

Christian, God has given you the talents you have. Your talents may not measure up to others, but they don’t have to; you just give your best with the talent you have and you will find that God can take your best to make you the best. It’s not talent that ends up the best in life, but it is the character to do your best all the time that often causes one to rise to the top and become “lucky.”

It’s Time to Reboot

its-time-to-rebootby: Dr. Allen Domelle

Job 40:3-4
“Then Job answered the LORD, and said, Behold, I am vile; what shall I answer thee? I will lay mine hand upon my mouth.”

Have you ever had a computer that seemed to get sluggish or freeze up? The internet company I have used for several years initially gave me a router when I signed up with their company. After using the router for several months, my wife and I noticed the internet seemed to be freezing up and was very sluggish as we tried to go to websites. I called the customer service department to get a technician to help, and every time they would come to a point where they would tell me to unplug the router and try it again. By unplugging the router, it reset the system and cleared the junk out of its memory so that it could run properly.

There are times when Christians need to unplug themselves and have a spiritual reboot. Job came across one of these times in his life when God finally had to help him unplug himself and have a spiritual reboot. You can see the reboot happen in Job 38-41. For several chapters, God demanded Job to answer several questions to which he had no answer. When God paused in the verses above, all Job could do and say was, “Behold, I am vile; what shall I answer thee? I will lay mine hand upon my mouth.” The final result of Job’s reboot is found in Job 42:6 where he says, “Wherefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.” Several indicators show that you need a spiritual reboot.

First, when you begin thinking that you know everything, you need a spiritual reboot. God asked in Job 38:2, “Who is this that darkeneth counsel by words without knowledge?” It can become easy to get to the point when you think you have the answer for everything. When your first response to every question in life is to run to your knowledge base instead of God’s, you need a spiritual reboot. It’s not that you don’t know the answer, but you really don’t know without God’s input. You need to trust God for the knowledge needed for every situation.

Spring-CreekBC_WatfordSecond, when you think you can do anything on your own, you need a spiritual reboot. God asked Job several times, “Canst thou,” or “Who can.” God wanted Job to realize that as much as he thought he could do things on his own, he still needed God’s help. You may have become proficient at what you do, and you may be the best at what you do, but you still need God’s help. When you begin daily projects without asking God for His help, you need a spiritual reboot.

Third, when you think highly of yourself and want people to see you, you need a spiritual reboot. It was when God revealed Himself to Job that he finally saw his true self. This is why Job said in the verse above, “Behold, I am vile…” This is why he said in Job 42:6, “Wherefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.” His spiritual reboot caused him to see how powerless he was and how vile that even his righteousnesses were.

The only way you are going to have a spiritual reboot is to see God daily. You can only do this by unplugging yourself from everyday’s activities and spending time in the Scriptures and prayer. Don’t go to the Scriptures to prove your spirituality, but go to them as a blank sheet of paper and ask the Holy Spirit to show you what you need to correct. Your spiritual reboot will happen when you see God as Who He is, and yourself as vile as you truly are.

Give Them a Break

give-them-a-breakby: Dr. Allen Domelle

Job 30:1
“But now they that are younger than I have me in derision, whose fathers I would have disdained to have set with the dogs of my flock.”

When studying the previous chapter with the verse above, it all comes together as to why Job disdained the youth. In the previous chapter, Job reminisced about how his life used to be. He remembered how he used to be treated when everything was well with his life. Now that his life was in great distress, he disdained the treatment of those who were younger than he. He disparaged the younger generation by calling names, attacking their works, and comparing their works as futile compared to what it used to be like when God’s blessings were on his life.

As I am now in the middle years of life, I have watched a couple of older generations seem to have the same response towards the youth as did Job. Please don’t take this as an attack because I truly respect the older generation; however, I believe the older generation needs to be careful about how they perceive the younger generation and give them a break. If we are not careful, we will discourage the younger generation to the point where they will never want our influences. Let me give a few suggestions about this topic.

First, the present generation will never compare to your golden years. We tend to look at history through a skewed prism. We see the greatness of our youthful years and what the LORD did without seeing the mistakes and sin that was as present in our youth as it is in the present. It is a false comparative to liken one generation to the next because each generation faces different obstacles. For instance, would those who faced persecution be less of a Christian because their churches were not as large as some of the churches in our lifetime? Absolutely not! Comparing the works or results of each generation is a false measurement.

Fundamental Baptist Church Alvarado TXSecond, it is better to encourage and guide the present generation than to attack and demand their respect. Be careful about tearing down what the present generation is doing in an attempt to get them to respect you and what you have done. The greatest way you will earn the respect of the present generation is to encourage them along the way. I have found that when I encourage them, they will be more apt to come to me with questions as to how they should do something. Demanding respect only pushes others away, but you earn their respect through encouragement and example. If you have a bitter attitude towards the present generation, they will want nothing to do with you. Be their encourager!

Third, the present generation would be wise to embrace the older generation. To those who are younger, let me encourage you to stop attacking how the older generation did things. You were not around during their time, and the LORD did use them mightily. You might find that the older generation would embrace and encourage you if you would stop attacking their works and methods. Attacking them is not going to change history, but it will pit you against them; instead, embrace them for what the LORD has done through them. You will gain wisdom and a priceless mentor to help you through your uncharted waters if you do this.

Both the younger and older generations can make a great team if both would give each other a break. Always remember, how you treat the older or younger generations is how you will be treated when you are that age.

The Marks of an Authentic Christian

Job 22:23
“If thou return to the Almighty, thou shalt be built up, thou shalt put away iniquity far from thy tabernacles.”

An authentic brand is always much different from the generic. The generic brand may be cheaper, but it is most likely doesn’t have the quality of the authentic brand. Likewise, the authentic Christian always mirrors Christ better than the Christian who lives like the world. The verse above says, “If thou return to the Almighty…” Following these words, you will find seven marks of the authentic Christian.  You will always know someone has returned to the LORD or the authenticity of someone’s Christianity by these marks.

First, growth is a mark of an authentic Christian. The verse above says, “…thou shalt be built up…” Every authentic Christian continues to grow. They never satisfy for the status quo, but they always have the desire to grow in the faith. If you are going to be an authentic Christian, you must grow daily in the LORD.

Second, a concern for the future is a mark of an authentic Christian. Verse 24 talks about laying up “gold as dust.” The authentic Christian is concerned with every work and how it affects their tomorrow. Furthermore, the authentic Christian’s works are works that affect the eternal. The authentic Christian wants to be sure that their works are laying up treasure in Heaven.

Third, verse 25 shows that dependence on God for protection is the mark of an authentic Christian. You will find that the authentic Christian is one who keeps their eyes on God and not man for their protection. You will never become an authentic Christian as long as you are looking to man for your direction or protection instead of God.

Fourth, verse 26 shows that the authentic Christian delights in the ways of God. The joy and excitement of the authentic Christian is derived from serving the LORD and seeing His works. You will always find that the things of God excite the authentic Christian more than money, fame or the things of the world.

Fifth, verse 27 shows that the authentic Christian has the propensity to pray. My friend, prayer should always be at the tip of your tongue. Your first thought about everything you do should be to pray to the LORD. The authenticity of a Christian is easily discovered by how quickly they turn to prayer for every situation of life.

Sixth, verse 28 shows that the authentic Christian is a producer. The authentic Christian has fruit to show for their works. The authentic Christian has a soul winning life instead of a soul winning time. Use can easily identify the authentic Christian because they are consistently bringing forth the fruit of souls.

Seventh, verse 29 shows that the authentic Christian is an encourager of the fallen. You can identify the authentic Christian by their propensity to help the fallen get up instead of kicking them while they are down. Their desire is for the fallen to be restored.

My friend, these seven marks will identify you as an authentic Christian or a fake. Which one are you? My hope is that your Christianity has the marks of authenticity.

Let Them Talk

let-them-talkby: Dr. Allen Domelle

Job 11:2
“Should not the multitude of words be answered? and should a man full of talk be justified?”

In Zophar’s prosecution of Job’s character, he made a statement that should be adhered by every Christian. He says, “Should not the multitude of words be answered? and should a man full of talk be justified?” He was saying that he couldn’t help but speak because he felt the more that Job talked, the more he condemned himself. Of course, Zophar was looking at Job’s situation through his own skewed view, but the content of what he said is true.

The best way to catch someone doing wrong is through their conversation. There are times when you just need to let them talk, because the more they talk, the more they will say things that will condemn themselves. Proverbs 10:19 says, “In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.” The more a sinner talks, the more they expose what they have done wrong. Job 15:6 enforces this truth when it says, “Thine own mouth condemneth thee, and not I: yea, thine own lips testify against thee.” There are times when you just need to let people talk because you will learn their fallacies through their talk. There are several lessons you can learn from this verse.

First, let the other person talk in any type of negotiation. Whether you are trying to discern if a person has done wrong, or you are trying to find out the truth, or you are in a business negotiation, you would be wise to let the other person do most of the talking. You will find out more about what the other person has done or is willing to do the more they talk. You must learn to sit in silence and listen. This is hard for many people, but if you learn to be silent, you will discover the substance needed to deal with the situation.

National Center for Life and LibertySecond, let listening be your first action in any conversation. James 1:19 says, “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:” Have you ever been with someone who starts a conversation and never stops talking? There have been a few times when I have had to tell someone to take a breath. You will learn more through your listening ear than your speaking tongue. You will find that the more you listen, the more you will be able to engage with others and help them with their needs. If you are “swift to hear” and “slow to speak,” you will find you can be a greater help and able to deal with obscured situations much better.

Third, there is more wisdom in silence than in talk. Job 13:5 says, “O that ye would altogether hold your peace! and it should be your wisdom.” Some of the wisest people I have been around are people who don’t talk much. One thing you will learn about silence is that it makes the guilty uncomfortable; the less you talk, the more they will talk. Likewise, the fool is uncomfortable with silence; that is why they spew their foolishness. You will find that if you speak less, you have a better chance of saying something that will come back to bite you. I have always learned more by listening than by talking.

Certainly, there is nothing wrong with talking, and there is a time when you should speak, but you will gain more wisdom through silence than by talking. Learn to be a listener, and you will gain the wisdom you need to deal with most situations in life.