Numbers 30:2
“If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.”
What you say you will do and the action that follows is truly what defines your character. Your word is your character. If your word cannot be depended upon, then your character is worthless; however, if you follow through with everything you say you will do, then the credit of your character is priceless.
There used to be a day when what a person said was as good as signing a contract. In those days, men would shake each others hand to confirm their word. Once they shook hands, you knew what was promised would happen. Today, a person’s word doesn’t carry much weight. It doesn’t matter if a person signed a contract because the right attorney can probably get you out of the contract without paying a price.
God says, “If a man vow a vow unto the LORD…he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.” God is teaching the importance of keeping your word. It is not just keeping your word with God, but it is keeping your word with anyone. Yes, the verse is talking about making promises to God, but according to Matthew 25:45, how you treat man is exactly how you treat God. With your word being so important to your character, there are some things you should always keep in mind before giving your word.
First, be slow to give your word. It is so easy to say that you are going to do something, but following through with what you say is not always that easy. Before you tell someone that you will do something, you ought to give yourself some time to think about what your word means.
Second, research the effects your word will have on your future. When a person is quick to give their word without ever studying its affect in their future, then they will regret its effect upon them in years to come. Always know where the decision will take you before you give your word.
Third, are you willing to live with the results of your word tomorrow? Oftentimes, we give our word only thinking about today’s implications, when tomorrow we still have to live with what we said we would do today. If you are not willing to live the rest of your life with a promise you are about ready to make, then you would be wise not to give the promise. There is always a tomorrow with every promise; therefore, be careful with giving your word.
Fourth, if you give your word, then find a way to fulfill it. This is truly what separates most people. There are some people who have no issue with calling someone up and breaking their word. They think because they have called someone and told them that they can’t do it that it absolves their responsibility. That is absolutely false! If you gave your word that you would do something, then you need to find some way to make it happen, even if that way inconveniences you.
Friend, your word defines you. Can people trust you by how you have kept your word in the past? The true test of your character is your word. Be careful with giving your word, but when you give it be sure to follow through on it.