How Can a Woman Judge Over a Man


QUESTION:

I wanted to ask you about a verse. Judges 4:4, “And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, she judged Israel at that time.” Someone from work asked me about this verse and I wanted to answer her correctly. Can you tell me about this verse? How can a women judge over a man? How is she a prophetess? How is this woman a judge of a country? Those were some of the questions. Thank you and God bless.

Brian

ANSWER:

Dear Brian,

Let me answer your questions one at a time. First, a “prophetess” simply means that she was the prophets wife. The Scriptures don’t say, but I suspect that her husband was dead, and she became the leader of the country because no man would stand up and lead. You must remember that this story is in the Book of Judges. This was not a spiritual time in Israel’s history. The Scriptures describe this time in Judges 21:25 by saying, “In those days there was no king in Israel: every man did that which was right in his own eyes.” You will notice, they were not looking to do right in God’s eyes, but in man’s eyes.

With this in mind, you must realize that God is not justifying her ruling over men, it was just that no man would take a stand. Barak wouldn’t go unless Deborah went with him. You must always remember that in the void of leadership, someone must lead. If men won’t lead, then the women will step up and lead. This has happened in the homes of America. It doesn’t make it right, it simply shows that someone has to lead.

It should motivate every man to fulfill his role of leadership. Likewise, you must be careful about taking the philosophy that a lady is second class. This is not true! God simply chose for men to be the leaders. I hope this helps answer your question.